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Jocelyn

December 18, 2006

Family is having a handicapped kid.
Family is having a handicapped kid, who some close to you want locked up.
Family is having a handicapped kid who prompts parishioners to shift to different pews.
Family is having a handicapped kid which means siblings friends won’t stay over.
Family is having a handicapped kid who community services don’t want to know about.
Family is having a handicapped kid about whom some relatives just don’t want to know or understand.
Family is having a handicapped kid which means holidays are not.
Family is having a handicapped kid that destroys your goods and chattels.
Family is having a handicapped kid who can’t be managed at school.
Family is having a handicapped kid who others laugh at.
Family is having a handicapped kid who does not know her own strength and hurts you.
Family is having a handicapped kid that requires 24 hour care and supervision.
Family is having a handicapped kid who prompts other patients in the waiting room to leave.
Family is having a handicapped kid with a syndrome not understood and for which there is no cure.

Yet…

Family is having a handicapped kid who loves unconditionally.
Family is having a handicapped kid who does not give a tinkers toss that the parishioners moved to another pew!
Family is having a handicapped kid who loves life.
Family is having a handicapped kid who is your own!
Family is having a handicapped kid who lets us know very quickly who are worth knowing and those who can go their own way.
Family is having a handicapped kid who has a wicked sense of humour.
Family is having a handicapped kid who loves practical jokes.
Family is having a handicapped kid who is her own person.
Family is having a handicapped kid who teaches us humility (learned very slowly).
Family is having a handicapped kid who has introduced us to people worth knowing (have I said that already? Must be important).
Family is having a handicapped kid who is, well part of the family.
Family is having a handicapped kid – for which we would do it all again.
Family is having a handicapped kid – well part of it anyway,
Meet Jocelyn.

Comments

7 Responses to “Jocelyn”

  1. The Bizarre Jokester on December 18th, 2006 1:31 am

    hi! you’ve got a marvellous blog! keep up the good work!

  2. R2K on December 19th, 2006 6:59 am

    : )

  3. Jessie on December 27th, 2006 3:40 am

    Visiting by way of the carnival. Very nice post here!

  4. Empress Bee (of the High Sea) on December 27th, 2006 8:17 am

    well now that was lovely! thanks… bee

  5. HeatherinBeautifulBritishColumbia on December 27th, 2006 11:31 am

    Sounds to me as though your family is a family because of YOU! Really nice post!!! I came here via the blog carnival :) Hope you stop by to read my entry.

  6. Pickled Eel on December 28th, 2006 2:46 am

    Thanks Heather – but I can’t take much of the credit. Wife and other siblings make it what it is – as does Jocelyn of course. And plenty of friends over the years that have helped us stay sane – including some parishoners who did not move to other pews!!

  7. Kevin on December 28th, 2006 9:01 pm

    Very well written post. I’m not sure where I heard this saying or when but….if something is easy then it’s not worth doing.

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